Elopements That Feel Like the Whole World Stopped for You
Just the two of you on a Rogue River overlook, or twenty of your favorite people around a candlelit table after. We plan elopements with the same care as a full wedding, permits, florals, photographer, and every quiet moment in between.

Small guest list. Big, unforgettable day.
An elopement should feel like the two of you paused the world. No head table, no first dance you're dreading, no receiving line, just the moments that actually matter to you.
Southern Oregon is one of the most beautiful places on earth to say yes: redwoods in Cave Junction, vineyard hilltops in Jacksonville, the wild Rogue River, and hidden bluffs above the coast. We handle the permits, scout the light, and build the day around your vision.
For couples who want a small gathering to follow, we design intimate dinners for 6, 12, or 20, a private-home chef, a winery patio buyout, or a candlelit long table under string lights. Every bit as considered as a 200-person reception, at the scale that fits your love.
Every detail, held for you.
A closer look at what's included when Bella plans your elopements & micro weddings.
The Ceremony
- Location scouting
- Park & venue permits
- Officiant sourcing
- Vow coaching
- Micro florals
- Photographer & videographer
The Look
- Hair & makeup
- Attire recommendations
- Ring styling
- Bouquet & boutonnière
- Ceremony arch
- Getting-ready details
The Celebration After
- Intimate dinner planning
- Private chef sourcing
- Winery & restaurant buyouts
- Guest lodging
- Weekend itinerary
- Champagne toast styling
From first hello to last dance.
- 01
Initial Consultation
We meet over coffee, video, or phone to learn about your vision, guest count, budget, and the moments that matter most.
- 02
Planning & Design
We build your vendor team, floor plan, palette, and timeline, pulling every idea into one cohesive story.
- 03
Coordination
As the day nears we take over vendor communication, confirm every detail, and run rehearsal so nothing lands on your family.
- 04
Celebration Day
You get to be fully present. We set the room, cue the moments, solve any surprises, and pack it all up when the last guest leaves.
A closer look.



Luxury without the stress.
Thoughtful Planning
Every decision is made with your people, palette, and priorities in mind, never pulled from a template.
Personal Communication
You get Bella directly. Calls, texts, and meetings answered promptly, warmly, and without a middleman.
Trusted Vendors
A hand-picked bench of Southern Oregon florists, photographers, caterers, and rental partners we book with confidence.
Calm, Organized Coordination
Detailed timelines, cue sheets, and on-site problem solving so the day feels effortless from your seat.
Choose the level of support that fits.
Not sure which package fits your day? Tell us about your event and we'll recommend the right one.
Option 1: Full Service
Enjoy the lead up. We handle the rest.
Ideal for
Hosts who want a true planning partner from the start.
Timeline
From first idea to send off
Option 2: Partial Planning
A pro to fill in the gaps.
Ideal for
Hosts who've started planning but need a pro to fill in the gaps.
Timeline
Kicks off 4 to 6 months before your event date
Good questions, honest answers.
- How many guests can attend an elopement or micro wedding?
- Elopements are typically just the two of you plus witnesses. Micro weddings usually cap around 20 guests. Above that, we recommend our full wedding planning experience.
- Do you handle permits for state and national parks?
- Yes. We handle permits and reservations for Oregon state parks, the Rogue River–Siskiyou National Forest, and private venues throughout Southern Oregon.
- Can we still have a photographer, florals, and a nice dinner?
- Absolutely, those are usually the things that make an elopement feel unforgettable. We source and coordinate all of it, scaled to a small guest count.
- Where is Bella & I Do based?
- Based in Grants Pass, Oregon, planning throughout Southern Oregon, Medford, Ashland, Jacksonville, Central Point, the Applegate Valley, and traveling for destination celebrations across the Pacific Northwest.
- Do you travel?
- Yes. Travel within 50 miles of Grants Pass is included in every proposal. Beyond that we're happy to travel across Oregon and Washington for a modest travel fee.
- Can you work with vendors we've already booked?
- Absolutely. We regularly integrate with couples' and hosts' existing vendors, we'll review contracts, fold them into your timeline, and communicate with them directly on your behalf.
Related celebrations
Weddings, Receptions & Elopements
From intimate elopements to full reception evenings, planned with care from start to send off.
Engagement Parties
The first celebration of your wedding weekend, planned with the same care as the day itself.
Rehearsal Dinners & Welcome Parties
The night before your wedding, hosted with the same warmth and precision as the day itself.
Ready to say yes, just the two of you?
Tell us where you're picturing your ceremony and who (if anyone) will be there. We'll take it from the first permit to the last champagne toast.
